Hey guys, it’s me again your favourite blogger 😎
Hope you guys are staying safe, I know you guys are but I still need to check up on how you guys are doing. I know God will see us through this. Amen 🙏
This is for my Lil sis she is going to be 16 soon on the 17 of this month which is Sunday. I actually want to give a guide through you know because this is the time we make major decisions that would affect our lives, every one of us must have made one silly decision, it’s also an emotional age, for a lot of us and there are so many things I wish I knew back then that I know now, I’m trying to pass the knowledge by ☺️
Hey I know being 16 is going to be really hard but there are just a few things I want you to keep on mind, it’s not going to be hard but trust me it is worth it.
Make your own choices. Life is going to get harder day by day and more confusing, but you have to know what you want and don’t let anyone make you do what you don’t want to do. Learn to choose, it’s better to make a mistake your own way and learn because it is easy to take in than making a mistake because of someone. Being able to stand on your decision is one of the best things that can happen to you
Love yourself. That is the best love that you can ever have self-love, because no matter how many people love you, it won’t be complete if you don’t have self-love and doubts will be in your mind leading to bad decisions, so always love yourself, the body that God gave you, the face he gave you. Love it and other things would come to pass
Slow down. No matter how fast you want to grow up don’t rush it. Trust me adulthood is not as fun as you think at all. Enjoy your days make it a life that you would remember and make each day count and take it one step at a time
Relax with the boy craziness. You know no matter how most of your friends are having boyfriends and first kisses doesn’t mean you have to force it. Love will come at its own time and this is the time your most vulnerable and heartbreaks are bound to happen so be calm, boys will come and go every single time and you will see more and more and more of them
Not all your friends now will be with you forever. People change, people, move some forward, some backward. Not all of them will stick to being with you for life. You will make new friends as life goes on and on and that’s how it’s going to be because change is a constant thing on life.
I hope I don’t sound too cheesy but I don’t think this applies to my 16-year-old self too. It applies to everyone that is going through something now, no matter what we meet challenges every time we clock a new age, so I hope this gives you hope. Thanks.